tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-395724992135781390.post5085209164080614184..comments2023-10-08T03:13:17.981-07:00Comments on Its Just Me: 2 a.m. TuesdayVanessahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09047903843756561927noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-395724992135781390.post-41159317439978589332009-06-19T08:13:16.372-07:002009-06-19T08:13:16.372-07:00That is a very good point - about the statistics. ...That is a very good point - about the statistics. Its one of Ian's best. :) Although, most of my friends have at least 3 children, and they don't have the same statistics going on, but its arguable that I would.<br><br>Really, after this week, I think my desire for more children is largely biological. So I'm finding myself in a new place where I'm going to be trying out acknowledging the feelings when they arrive and then letting them go. Similar to hormonally PMS-y feelings. Anyway. I might look into that book. I'm still trying to find a library copy of the Sync book that you just read, it sounds amazing. I might end up buying it, we'll see. (I get your goodreads.com updates)Vanessahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09047903843756561927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-395724992135781390.post-30160985390570906742009-06-19T07:58:28.108-07:002009-06-19T07:58:28.108-07:00Hey Cous,I just finished a book called "the p...Hey Cous,<br>I just finished a book called "the paradox of Choice." One of the things it talks about is how we typically think of how much happier we would be and how much better things would be if we had something we didn't or did something else and typically this thinking makes us very unhappy. What we don't do is think about how much worse things could have been, which surprisingly makes us happy when we do it and more grateful for what we do have. Think about if you hadn't been able to have either of your beautiful children. It might not feel like much consolation but it might be a positive reflective process. <br>Besides your children are so wonderful, statistics would point to the third being an absolute terror.Arielhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14083070267382401045noreply@blogger.com